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How do I send emails to members?

Silver & Gold Members:
To contact other members on AdultFriendFinder, please follow these steps:

  1. Log into the site using your username and password.
  2. Click on the "Search" link.
  3. Enter the username of the member you wish to contact into the "Username Search Form," or select your search preferences and click on the 'Submit' button to see your results. (For further assistance, please read How do I search for members?.)
  4. From a member's profile page, scroll down to the bottom and using the form provided, write your message. Click on the "Click to send the above message" button.

Standard members:
Standard members are only allowed to view a limited number of profiles and reply to ten emails sent by another member every 24 hours. If you would like extensive privileges and features, we recommend upgrading your membership status to Gold or Silver. Here are a few of the many exciting benefits that come with premium status:

  1. Get listed at the top of the searches and receive more responses.
  2. View and email millions of members.
  3. Use the powerful search feature to find your exact match.
  4. Activate your Cupid Service and get full email notification of new matches.

If you would like extensive privileges and features, we recommend upgrading your membership status to Gold or Silver.

Note: Make sure to enter all of the information in the form including the anti-spam number or your message will not go through. Our vision impaired members can click on the anti-spam number to hear an audio file.



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