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HELP!! Really, WHAT would you do!!!!!!
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HELP!! Really, WHAT would you do!!!!!! Curosity has compelled me to ask this question!!! Here you are, a Gold Member on AdultFriendFinder. Or any level of membership here. You have sifted thru all the bazillion emails you have been sent after all you want to be sure that the one you decide on is the exact RIGHT one. You have made contact, chatted online, exchanged pics, and oh wow Man his package is impressive!!! woo hooo. His photo was awesome, handsome, tall, dark eyes, exactly my idea of what excites me. We have chatted on the phone for a month or so, and I made the decision to take the plunge and meet for lunch. I shower, and puff and fluff and make sure I am appealing. This is going to be so exciting to meet with this person. I arrived at the designated date place and am seated to wait the arrival of my date. As I sit here gazing around the room, in anticipation of his arrival, this person arrives at my table and stands smiling down at me. I smile back and say hello. He says, Hello ____Insert your name!! I am ____ insert HIS name. You sit there open mouthed!!!! stutter, stammer a hello. wondering who the hell is THIS!!!! He is roughly 5 or MORE years OLDER than his pictures and stated age on AdultFriendFinder. He is grossely overweight. You can see thru the large amount of hair on his face that he is also missing some teeth. While you are struck dumb, he sits down and says "HI it's so good to finally meet you in person" Yep that is the voice from the phone, but uh WHERE is the person in the photo on AdultFriendFinder?? As he takes his seat opposite you, you finally find your voice, and after a slight cough, comment, "uh wow you are are different from your photo" He chuckles and says well, that wasn't exactly my picture, it's one I found on the internet. I thought after we met and how good we struck it off it wouldn't really matter. OHHH you say. Um well how old are you exactly, and his reply puts him somewhere in the area of 10 years older than you and now your brain is remembering that sex package he had on his profile!! Now just what would your thoughts or reaction be??? I mean seriously, How many times have men/women used pirated photos from the internet as theirs, and don't even go there to try and say that don't happen it has been proven over and over that they do. Just what the hell do you men think women are going to think, or how they are going to react when or if you get past the meeting and all goes well, and it advances to the bedroom, you drop your drawers, and Willie the WORM is there, and you hand her a magnifying glass to see it, to prove it is really THERE, and is not anywhere near that Anaconda you have showing on your profile or in your pictures!! REALLY?? Or the women who have humungo boobs, or other pirated photos of their crotch and the male looks and sees a National Forest of fuzz or even worse!!! What if that person had even spent the money to travel for this meet a long distance, by car or plane!! I am at a total loss for WHY anyone would use anything other than their OWN photo if they have any remote intention of meeting someone in the real world. Just HOW ,ok I will be open minded, EXPLAIN to me how YOU are going to EXPLAIN the discrepancy?? As for proof of pirated photos, go find an article I wrote years ago on "Wheres Waldo" because that WALDO was a pirated photo that showed up in 8 countries on 8 different men in less than one week all claiming it was them./SIZE] I am going to sit back and just wait to hear all the excellent explanations for these little discrepancies. OR your JUSTIFICATION for why you simply did NOT use your OWN photo and be YOURSELF. |
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All I can say is What an Ass
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[BThanks for the replies!! I seriously am trying to find out what the devil posesses people both genders to do such a dumb thing. By the way it did not happen to me, but it did happen to a friend of mine, at least the first part, I was merely curious about the second imtimate part if it ever got that far with someone how they would explain away that what they have is NOT what they show on profile pics. I would drop dead of embarassment if I said I was this humungo boobie babe, and then when someone arrived I was fried eggs on a platter!!! So far you are the only two brave enough to venture to reply lol, so thank you again. Lady]
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Wow amazing. 30 people have read and only TWO are brave enough to offer their opinions. Hmmmm, well either the other 28 fall into this category, or simply have no opinions on just what they WOULD do!!!. How interesting
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1/19/2015 10:15 am |
The fake pics are not going to get anyone anywhere. If the guy posts them he is cheating himself and the lady. If the lady says no problem - let's play anyway she is cheating herself and the fellow. Just play honest and things work out much better.
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53ww Thank you, and you are absolutely right.!! You know I hear a lot of men who wail about the very brutal, nasty responses they get from women , but I am still waiting for the men to step up and defend their own gender and tell the idiots that are insulting, and nasty just because they didn't read a profile, and sent an idiotic email to a female, that they need to read profiles, and respect those who write them, be they male or female. Example, if you have read my profile, I am pretty darn specific as to what I do not want. However, this morning I get a email from a 38 year old male, telling me how hot I am and lets meet!! yeah right!!!! Thank you for taking the time to reply here I do appreciate it Lady
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My thought on the fake picture is that they are in denial or narcississtic about their true appearance. Also, there may be some insecurity about their attractiveness or desirableness. They would have to be a fast talker get around explaining the discrepancy. Women are significant offenders. I never trust posted pictures until proven accurate. Anyone can post any picture. Just my thoughts...
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7/5/2016 5:36 pm |
Fake picture fake person. Until you actually meet someone from here you can be who ever you want to be. The down side of the internet
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4/13/2018 1:55 pm |
You are absolutely right and have nailed it. People should just be honest and straight forward. At my advanced age it really matters. Thanks lovely lady and the very best to you.{=}
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