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Finding a Fertile Field
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Finding a Fertile Field Sigh. Well, RED turned out to be a douche-- nothing at all like the good guy I though he was. Shortly after dealing with that fiasco, I met another guy here (we'll call him...well, fuck it-- his name is Mike, lol). So MIKE and I chatted constantly for a few weeks and then took me to dinner twice... things were going awesome...until he decided he wanted to find a real relationship and start dating. Of course he tells me this AFTER I start caring about him (but before I got too terribly invested). I'm not a fan of the way he handled things, but I'll give him credit for being honest with me. I had a feeling he wasn't gonna work because my marriage was a tough thing for him to reconcile, even though I'm playing with permission. Anyhoo...the bottom line is that I need a new playground on which to play. Every time I open this site, I see the same cocks and the same smiles and the same guys day in and day out. The local dudes already know me-- either I've already rejected them, or they've already rejected me. I need to move on. Anyone have any suggestions? I'm not quite ready for Fetlife, and POF doesn't allow married people. I won't play with married folks, so Ashley Madison is out. Where can I go to see men I don't know??? When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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For the first time in decades I have emotions for a woman. The problem is that I am a broken man with a disability's. Some of it deals with the trauma I went through as a firefighter and as an EMT responding to thousands of calls. My body does show damage and I am on disability. I can love her with all my heart, but I do not want to be a burden. Any suggestions?
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2/1/2019 9:03 pm |
Philadelphia?
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If you are looking for someone semi-local and someone you do not know, I am available.
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Its crazy out there! And its crazy in here too!!! Seems like all the ones that are willing are miles and thousands of miles apart! and then some are right around the corner!! keep your head up, eyes open and focus on YOU!!! [I]Da Focker!!
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6/23/2016 7:09 am |
love is hard.  {=} 
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OKCupid is decent, and Tinder if you're looking for a hookup 
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Sorry to hear you are not having the luck you deserve. Stay positive and great things will come!!
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Not sure if you'll find anybody in your area, but you could try WorldFriendsdotcom. There's always Tinder, too, although most likely you'll be swiping left more than right . . . lol
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you are very beautiful and with permission I'm sure something / someone will turn up 
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If you ever come down my way... I would be happy to show you a fun time. I wish I had a long term contract in Chicago!!! Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!
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The grocery store?? A local lady told Home Depot is an excellent pick up spot.....seriously lol "A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side" Enter my Lair: spudsy1000
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Where to go to meet guys you don't already know - uhm - Country and Western Bar? Or perhaps a Construction Site? Just kidding - although the C&W bar might be a good idea - worked for me on more one occasion...and you can wear your tightest jeans topped with a colorful corset - a fabulous look on any lady! You know what "they" say: when you quit looking that's when you find someone. POF - dear Lord! Haven't thought about that place in years! Just stick to the birdie site - maybe something will pop there. Cheers, LT
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Sorry to hear RED turned out not to be the HOT date you were looking for.
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I have looked at all of your blog and I am interested but there is a problem which seems to be a constant for me......................the distance.
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I'd offer to help you out with your search, but we do have some distance between us.
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Have you looked at Ashley Madison, there are some single people looking for low commitment relationships with married people. OK Cupid is a site to check out. You get some of the same asshattery you find here but you don't have the public penis parade and some, though fewer, will send you pictures of their junk. You could try a swinger site SLS is one, but you want to be sure the guy isnt looking for someone "in the lifestyle". You could also go the polyamory route, you'll find men, who may or may not be attached themselves , who are comfortable with the idea of a "hall pass". Polymatchmaker is one site The funny thing is that the I've seen the kind of situation you are looking for work best when the two people involved meet and develop a relationship organically. Are there any men where you take classes or work out or some other place you go regularly?
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The only thing I've got is okcupid. I haven't had the best luck there. But I imagine the numbers would be more in your favor then mine. It's open to married folks, open relationships and is free. No blogs though.
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you know that I just got the basement renovated. I would love to have you up to visit and a quick snuggle or two. hell I might just come your way.
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If there is a local lifestyle club, they usually have a website.  Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Sigh, why is the perfect women with the perfect scenario for me are always miles and miles away? You are beautiful and exactly what I am looking for.....any chance you could come to Pennsylvania? A story by Lucius8858
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OKCupid maybe. I'm not real happy with it but I think I've aged out...the numbers aren't with me. They do allow married open-relationship type people. And it's free.   
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I say become an air attendant and travel for new cocks and smiles! Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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cum on down to AZ
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Fet isn't really a dating site, but it can help you find a local social, munch, or other sort of meet-and-greet in your area. Kinksters tend to be fairly accepting people. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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OKCupid is a dating site, but I've found almost as many married men there as singles. They allow marrieds and it's a free site unless you want to pay for a couple of features. You might also be surprised at FetLife. Even if you're not into some of the more "hardcore" lifestyle, there are a lot of very nice people on there and not everyone is into the more extreme type of sex. It's also mostly free. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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Seeing as how you have permission, why not try swinglifestyle dotcom?
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