Does a Blow Job motivate you???  

Ellasboudoir 56F
1093 posts
6/12/2021 4:50 pm
Does a Blow Job motivate you???


Hello my fellow playmates,

It's been a while. Looks like the blogs might be working again.

So my question is does a BJ motivate you? Meaning if it is Saturday morning and your wakes you up by playing with your cock and sucking on it does that make you motivated to do her chore list? Or does it not matter you still don't want to do chores?

I tried it this morning on B and he was motivated to work for a while so it does work for some of the time. But either way, I still enjoy his cock and our playtime.

Happy Saturday and I hope you had a wonderful day filled with at least one playtime with your partner....

Ella

topherific 59M  
5106 posts
6/12/2021 7:11 pm

if you're going to 'do' something for me, the least i can do is something for you


cyclingfool 59M  
6622 posts
6/12/2021 7:40 pm

It is highly motivating. Be it knowing your efforts all the time are being notices and appreciated. Sometimes though that almighty BJ could just be what is needed to let go and relax if really needed. There is a time and place for both.
But do know, they are never forgotten.....


agedfun1 74M

6/12/2021 8:26 pm

At least he didn't roll over and go back to sleep after his orgasm.

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New2Midlo 51M  
927 posts
6/12/2021 8:26 pm

My motivation for knocking out chores is having a happier partner at the end of the day as well as knowing it'll make me feel better about myself versus putting things off.

A blowjob is always welcome, but if I had the tiniest inkling there was some subtle quid pro quo involved, that wouldn't sit well.

Yes, I'm odd.


AdanVazquez33 38M
23 posts
6/12/2021 8:59 pm

Waking up to a sexy BJ is aways a blessing. There is no more motivation that compares a nice sexy girl taking care of business. I am grateful when my day start like that. Keep it up!


Lkn4funwith2 56M
1198 posts
6/12/2021 9:00 pm

A bj is sex, NOT power. If a woman wakes me up with a bj, I will go down on her in a heartbeat. Do her chore list... really??


midhard1 64M
157 posts
6/12/2021 9:04 pm

Motivates me. And, that is a great way to be awaken. Cum to think of it a great way to end the day, too. Oh, and, what the heck, great anytime!


boobwhisperer69 58M  
7682 posts
6/12/2021 9:46 pm

Motivates the hell out of me!!!!!


Coach4BustyFWB 52M
51 posts
6/13/2021 12:57 am

It absolutely would motivate me . . .


Sonymichell 55M
50 posts
6/13/2021 1:10 am

Yes, it gets the blood flowing and the mind growing. Makes you think about what might I should do today??


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:44 am

    Quoting topherific:
    if you're going to 'do' something for me, the least i can do is something for you
Oh I am sure there are lots of things you could do for me...


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:46 am

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    It is highly motivating. Be it knowing your efforts all the time are being notices and appreciated. Sometimes though that almighty BJ could just be what is needed to let go and relax if really needed. There is a time and place for both.
    But do know, they are never forgotten.....
Good to know.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:47 am

    Quoting agedfun1:
    At least he didn't roll over and go back to sleep after his orgasm.
Oh he did. LOL But he finally got the chores done as well , then he got rewarded for being a good boy!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:49 am

    Quoting New2Midlo:
    My motivation for knocking out chores is having a happier partner at the end of the day as well as knowing it'll make me feel better about myself versus putting things off.

    A blowjob is always welcome, but if I had the tiniest inkling there was some subtle quid pro quo involved, that wouldn't sit well.

    Yes, I'm odd.
No I get it. Trust me he would feel the same but I don't ever give a BJ out of anything other than desire but it is a reward I believe for both of us.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:49 am

    Quoting AdanVazquez33:
    Waking up to a sexy BJ is aways a blessing. There is no more motivation that compares a nice sexy girl taking care of business. I am grateful when my day start like that. Keep it up!
I feel blessed as well because I enjoy giving a BJ to my guy.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:51 am

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    A bj is sex, NOT power. If a woman wakes me up with a bj, I will go down on her in a heartbeat. Do her chore list... really??
Easy there...you missed the point but I understand your view. It wasn't JUST to motivate I truly did enjoy it and would have given him one anyway.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:51 am

    Quoting midhard1:
    Motivates me. And, that is a great way to be awaken. Cum to think of it a great way to end the day, too. Oh, and, what the heck, great anytime!
AGREED!! I love giving and he loves receiving.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:52 am

That's my guy. Smart man.


BDaddys 55M  
345 posts
6/13/2021 2:49 am

Some chores might need more than a blow job...


naughtyultimate1 60M

6/13/2021 2:59 am

a saturday morning blow job is lots of fun, and a motivator


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38595 posts
6/13/2021 3:41 am

A morning blowjob is idyllic especially after a hard night's sex. I'd defintely do some chores afterwards.


salty_one_65 56M
61 posts
6/13/2021 5:08 am

I'm probably misinterpreting your post...it raises the question (for me at least)...should an intimate sex act between a man and a woman (in a relationship) ever be considered transactional?

Regardless of who is giving/receiving.

Maybe I'm naïve...


CleavageFan4U 64M  
67864 posts
6/13/2021 6:19 am

The prospect of a repeat would be what motivated me.

But in reality, overall I'd prefer the BJ (or other sex) be motivated by desire, rather than quid pro quo.

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paulslookn 63M
559 posts
6/13/2021 6:31 am

I LUST YOU!!!!!!


MrRareity 61M  
4461 posts
6/13/2021 8:52 am

If I was awoken by a B/J I would want to play even more once we were finished then I would work on the chores.

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69ereatwetpussy 59M
6044 posts
6/13/2021 10:03 am

well ild say wake me up playing with my joy stick suck and promise me more when it cums to lunch time ill do anything ou want do it again for dinner. then a massage shower together and bed time. wake me again ill do more.


Kumabear75 46M  
33 posts
6/14/2021 9:06 am

I will say that I would not be motivated to much except stay in bed with my partner after a wake-up BJ. It would be a long time before the bedroom door would open


washaw2016 77M  
4 posts
6/14/2021 5:50 pm

I would be some what motivated , but might need some reminders along the way.


Unzipmeslowly51 51M
433 posts
6/15/2021 5:09 am

Im sure you could motivate me ella😉


citizen4722 63M  
73057 posts
6/16/2021 1:08 pm

Yes, it definitely has to be a case of give and take


Go_Down_Cowboy_2 60M
892 posts
6/20/2021 10:45 am

Blow jobs are the best motivator!! For me, personally...I would do almost anything for blowjobs! Need me to paint a house, chop down some trees, rebuild your carburetor, weed the garden...you name it...I'm there!


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:34 pm

    Quoting Go_Down_Cowboy_2:
    Blow jobs are the best motivator!! For me, personally...I would do almost anything for blowjobs! Need me to paint a house, chop down some trees, rebuild your carburetor, weed the garden...you name it...I'm there!
Now that is my kind of man.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:35 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Yes, it definitely has to be a case of give and take
Agreed!!!


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:35 pm


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:36 pm

    Quoting washaw2016:
    I would be some what motivated , but might need some reminders along the way.
Agreed and NO issue.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:36 pm

    Quoting Kumabear75:
    I will say that I would not be motivated to much except stay in bed with my partner after a wake-up BJ. It would be a long time before the bedroom door would open


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:37 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    well ild say wake me up playing with my joy stick suck and promise me more when it cums to lunch time ill do anything ou want do it again for dinner. then a massage shower together and bed time. wake me again ill do more.
Yes sir, my kind of guy.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:37 pm

    Quoting topherific:
    if you're going to 'do' something for me, the least i can do is something for you
Yes sexy man I agree.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:38 pm

    Quoting agedfun1:
    At least he didn't roll over and go back to sleep after his orgasm.
Oh he did.


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